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  • Writer's pictureRobert D. Bessler

Why You Can’t Seem to Find Your Soul-Mate

Updated: Jun 17, 2019

Are you actively seeking your soul-mate but seem to be encountering one dud after another? Are you unwilling to lower your standards or just mindlessly attach yourself to someone out of desperation? Are you continuously frustrated with all the nonsensical information out there concerning soul-mate relationships that seems to offer nothing based in reality? If so, you’re not alone.

Do you feel deep in your heart that a soul-mate is something very real? Are you experiencing an urge from deep within, a yearning at your very core, to find them? Does your heart ache at night to be with that one special person? If so, you’re not alone.

Yes, soul-mate relationships exist. Pragmatically speaking, they are consciousrelationships. I speak from personal experience as I’ve been in one with mywonderful wife for many years. A soul-mate relationship is the most incredible thing we can experience in the physical world. It’s a relationship that has no equal. It’s the one relationship we all crave and it’s your right to enjoy this type of relationship, the type of relationship that you desire and deserve. But, do you know what constitutes a soul-mate relationship?

Let’s take a look at a brief, yet practical and clear look into what a soul-mate is and is not. A soul-mate is a person of the complimentary physical energy manifestation of you. They’re quite literally, the other half of you – of your soul. The yin to your yang (or vis versa). They’re your compliment, not your opposite, as opposites do not attract. They literally complete you. They’re certainly not someone who causes you frustration, pain, challenges you, or cheats on you; they’re the same as you are. Same tastes, same desires, same interests, same spiritual foundations. Literally, the same person.

Well, let’s begin by looking at a simple fact – a soul-mate relationship is extremely rare. Why is this so? The reason is simple… most people fail to grasp what is necessary in order to recognize their soul-mate. They turn to using this spiritual term to fit any relationship they mindlessly enter into, including their relationship with their pet. All too often this term is overused in order to help people justify within their own mind carelessly sleeping with anyone and everyone, believing that they must have all been soul-mates. This is assuredly not so.

You see, a soul-mate relationship is a “conscious relationship.” This is the key to realizing the truth of this truly exceptional once-in-a-lifetime relationship with your one and only. In order to recognize your soul-mate you need to become conscious, awake, and capable of attracting them into your experience. This type of relationship is so rare because awakened people are so rare. Now, I’m not talking about those who consider themselves awakened because they see through the illusions of government, religion, and society. That’s all very fine and good, but it’s a different type of awakened. I’m speaking of spiritual awakening, which is an ever unfolding process and not only results in one seeing beyond illusion, but also delusion.

Allow me to state this clearly – in order to engage in a true soul-mate relationship you must be well along the spiritual path of awakening. You yourself must become consciously aware and so must your soul-mate.

This should be understood from the other perspective too, or the perspective of the other, as a soul-mate relationship requires that both people be awakened. That’s right, both need to be spiritually awakened. This is a mutual relationship and requires that both people involved be awakened and walking the same spiritual path together, hand in hand, growing together instead of growing apart.

Make no mistake, there are countless people out there who believe themselves awakened, yet they’ve done nothing in regards to authentic practices. Getting high and engaging in new age feel-good fluff exercises do not, and cannot, result in authentic awakening. Please avoid this trap that lures the desperate into pursuing this false path. There are no shortcuts for the practices necessary to attain awakening.

In order to recognize your soul-mate, you first need to engage in real practices that have the potential to result in your awakening. As you begin this process, the truth of this will become known to you. Your eyes will open for the first time and you’ll see everything in a new light. It is this vision that’s necessary for recognizing your soul-mate. From that more awakened point of view, you’ll be able to attract your soul-mate into your experience, and they too will be awakened and attracting their soul-mate into their experience. That soul-mate will be you. You may often find that the person was near you all along, right under your nose; yet until you awakened, you had no clue. There are many ways in which this mutual attraction plays out and it’s unique to each conscious couple.

Still want a soul-mate experience? Then what are you waiting for? Start engaging in authentic practices in order to activate the awakening process within yourself. Focus on your own awakening and I assure you that your soul-mate will be doing the same. Make the time to engage the process of becoming conscious and you’ll awaken the potential for a conscious relationship. The truth of a soul-mate relationship is simple; the challenge comes in getting up, getting active, getting involved, and summoning the courage to engage our own lives.

Want a conscious relationship? First, become conscious! When you become conscious, you’ll begin to attract your soul-mate into your life. They too, will be a conscious, awakened person. It’s through this vibration that you attract one another, and it’s through this higher consciousness that you recognize the other person for who they truly are – your soul-mate.

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